I knew when I started planning my daughter’s 5th birthday milestone session, I wanted something amazing. I wanted a fabulous location. A great dress and accessories. But I didn’t want to go so over the top with planning and styling that we lost the essence of her free spirit in the process.  It was a little bittersweet, knowing it would be her last portrait session in California – at least for a while. I knew that this session would mark several milestones, so I wanted to make sure it was done right, whatever the cost.  As usual, she was involved from start to finish. If there is anything I can stress to my clients, it would be to truly invest in your session – your time, your interest, and yes, even money. The more connected you feel to the session, the better your photos will be.   I hear it all the time: “Oh your daughter is so well-behaved to pose for you like that.” Here’s the truth: No. She is invested in the session, as am I, so I’m able to just let her be herself and the photographs come naturally. The more you force a child to do something they think is boring or restrictive, the fewer “good” photos you’ll get. By allowing her creative license in this process, it becomes fun, an adventure. And as always, timing was everything – such perfect, beautiful sunset light….

See for yourself.

Location: Keys Creek Lavender Farm, Valley Center, CA
Dress: Dollcake Dance to the Rhythm Dress in Vanilla, sold by One Good Thread
Headband: Eden Halo by Em and Cait

I do want to make a note…several people have asked me about shooting at this location. They are wonderful to work with, but do have a strict calendar and an hourly fee ($100/hr at the time of publication). Please be courteous to Keys Creek and make a reservation. Do not just arrive at the farm and hope to shoot. There are fewer and fewer truly photographer-friendly places like this one lately. Let’s maintain a great relationship with these other small businesses. Thank you.